Dilemma

By onedayathought

You scold them. They feel inferior.

You praise them. They feel superior.

Any suggestion?

6 Responses to “Dilemma”

  1. dreamsky Says:

    don’t scold don’t praise

  2. Martin Siet Says:

    netrally.
    everyone have his/her own type.
    someone need to scold them so they action but
    someone need to praise them so they action

  3. dreamsky Says:

    yea kinda… but if you do nothing then you won’t be in a delimma or another way is to scold them le then you praise them… like bad news then good news kind of thing

  4. onedayathought Says:

    If I understand you correctly, you said I needed to combine both. But once they feel discouraged, it’s hard for them to stand up again.
    If you scold them, the praise will not be so effective again.

  5. onedayathought Says:

    Martin.. Are you saying I need to understand them more?

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